I’m back in action now that my 104 degree temperature went down and I got some pain meds after 5 hours of telling the recovery room nurses that “this pump must be a placebo or something because I feel like someone slit me with a really sharp ginso knife!.” Let’s get rid of the drama mama and ship her off to her room whereby I am now delusional and my new nurse started to look at my pain med pump, grabbed another nurse, and said “she hasn’t received any pain medications”. OOPS! Because I am allergic to morphine, the epidural was without any pain blockers, just enough to numb me. I expected pain but not fever induced insanity, 2 hours of shakes and chills, and the feeling that I had been ripped open and left a carcus in recovery. In my mind…all I wanted to do was see these little guys and I couldn’t. But, I have to tell you that the sound of them screaming with their big strong lungs was the best moment of my life and seeing them before they were taken to NICU – I was pleasantly suprised by their size, length and weights – I expected the wrinkly sort of rat-like resemblance that many preemies have and these guys had fat cheeks and michelan-man legs and arms. Our family and friends who have seen them all say the same thing…they are small but they don’t look too different that a full-term baby.
Here are some more pics.
My Mom holding her first grandchild – Gerrit – named after her father and my gramps and then a pic of my parents taking turns holding each baby.
Austin (right above – also answers to the name Lowrider) and Gerrit (left above – also answers to the name Chili) have very different physical appearances, temperaments, and even blood types. Austin look like his daddy and even has the same furrowed brow – how does a kid already have a permanent wrinkle at less than 24 hours of age? He is a bit more feisty, has his father’s blood type, and moves a lot! I just noticed in the above pic – is he flipping us off? Gerrit is a bit more laid back and likes to be all stretched out, has more charateristics of me and my fam and has my blood type. Only some more time can tell us if a successful marriage of Mexican and Dutch can generate a true hybrid cross or if each child genetic wiring makes them resitant to cross-combination. Whatever! These are some cute kids, I mean, they are really cute! They are quite the flirts of the NICU!
Noel decided to change his first diaper on Gerrit and Gerrit pulled a few suprises on him when he decided to poop like a playdough fun factory and then pee on him…Welcome to Fatherhood! We have been able to partcipate in their bottle feedings and changing their diapers and we read to them. I
am still at the hospital for a couple more days and then pretty much set up our camp at NICU – we are anxiously awating the day when they can both see each other again in the NICU crib. Noel has brought blankets from the their little dome home for the dogs and both Otis and Maslow were jumping and sniffing and wagging tails – I can’t wait for fur kids and human kids to have their first introductions in person.
We have also had our share of grieving along with celebrating – Eli will never be forgotten and Grandpa plans to plant a very gorgeous flowering tree in our yard for Eli so that his brothers can climb and be close to him.
I brought my beautiful wrap that Lynn so graciously made for me – I love it Lynn and it was the perfect item for me to bring to the hospital. This photo does not do the colors or pattern justice – I will try to get a better pic of it later when I can see real natural light again. It is warm and soft with gorgeous shades of green, golds, and teal/tourqoise. I will treasure it always.
35 Comments
November 20, 2006 at 8:22 am
You poor thing, I can’t believe you had to go without pain meds all that time. Dumb ass hospital. But the rest of the news is happy, happy, happy!
November 20, 2006 at 8:54 am
My left hip was wet for two weeks after I had a son. Just remember, fresh air stimulates them to pee…never pull one diaper out without having the new one at the ready. In fact, my dh mastered the stealth diaper change…he’d open the diaper, wait for the response, slap that diaper back down to catch the fallout and wait a few seconds. Voila, dry baby!
Me? I never figured that out. I only learned of this when I caught him changing the baby once, which is how my left hip came to be wet for so long.
Congratulations to you all. You’ve done a masterful job. And know that as long as you have a blog here (and beyond) Elija will never be forgotten.
November 20, 2006 at 9:01 am
I am so glad you are feeling better!
Yes, you did invent the perfect Hybrid
November 20, 2006 at 9:13 am
congrats kristi and noel…those babes are beeyouteeful. rest up while you can, they look like they will keep you busy. my #3 spent 6 weeks in nicu before we got to bring her home, i had lots of knitting time while she cooked in her tent. looking forward to the continuing adventures…
November 20, 2006 at 9:30 am
Congratulations! The boys are adorable and the screaming is truly music to your ears!
November 20, 2006 at 9:38 am
Ooooh they sure are gorgeous!!WOO hoo!
Get ALL the rest you can! and then some!
And make those nurses jump and feel guilty heheheh
I love the idea of the tree.. trees and boys are like peas and carrots!!
November 20, 2006 at 9:45 am
What a lovely thing your father is doing by planting a tree for the boys to be close to their brother. So sweet.
The little guys really are beautiful! And get a load of that hair! Wow!
Congratulations – enjoy every moment.
November 20, 2006 at 10:10 am
Ouch!! I’m glad that you’re doing well now at least – and that the boys are doing great!
November 20, 2006 at 10:19 am
Here I go, crying again. The tree idea is great, Eli will always be in your hearts, and a lot of knitters’ hearts, too.
I can’t believe you went so long without pain meds, I’d have been having a bratty fit!
Oh my gosh! Those boys are adorable. They really look like full term babies. When our son, Malcolm was in the NiCu, the babies were so small and different looking. Mal was 10 lbs, but very sick. The other parents stared at us, like he didn’t belong, cuz he was huge. We were there for 2 weeks. Hope the time in the hospital flies by and you have them home safe and sound with you guys!
November 20, 2006 at 10:44 am
They are gorgeous!!!!! Your fur babies will be so excited to see their little baby brothers
Love and hugs to you and the boys!
November 20, 2006 at 11:12 am
Ugh, yeah the shakes, I forgot about the shakes after surgery.
Next time you go down to see them, look at them, and then look at your stomach and try to imagine how the hell they all squished up in there. Mindblowing!
Love the Eli Tree idea as well. And good one bringing home their blankies for the pups to sniff. We did that with the little sparrow freebie blankie and our cat!!!
November 20, 2006 at 11:27 am
I had the shakes with my c-section too… it was miserable! I am so sorry you had a rough go of it.
I am overwhelmed with joy for you… Those boys are so beautiful and strong.We will be praying for continued health,strength, and a short NICU stay…
Heidi
November 20, 2006 at 11:34 am
ah, kristi,
they are beautiful, your mom and dad must be beside themselves w/ love and happiness. of course, i know you and noel are.
i have to tell you, i love the name elijah domingo garcia. it sounds like a song and i will always remember him. i like to think those who have left us sit on our shoulders and watch over us.
sara had the same problem w/ her epidural at the same hospital. when he placed the needle he gave her the initial medication but forgot to hook up the pump. so 2 1/2 hrs later when the pain got bad the nurse checked it over and found the tubing to the pump under her pillow w/ the cap still on. all that medication went on the sheet. his coworker who came in to fix it kept repeating, “unfortunately, these thing happen sometimes, but at least no one died.” about the fourth time she said it SHE almost died! dumb bitch.
here’s a big virtual hug for you and your noel and your boys. get some good rest and god bless you all.
November 20, 2006 at 11:37 am
Kristi, I can’t begin to tell you what a warm and wonderful feeling I have to know that you and the babies are safely delivered and growing stronger daily. What a meaningful Thanksgiving you will have this year!
November 20, 2006 at 12:07 pm
Thank you for sharing this part of your lives with us. Your boys are darling. {{hugs}}
November 20, 2006 at 12:51 pm
I’m glad you got some pain meds at last!! Giving birth is a journey for sure! The boys are just beautiful!! I can’t believe they’re finally here! The tree is such a lovely way to remember Eli too. Best wishes to you all!
November 20, 2006 at 1:08 pm
Lovely lovely lovely boys! Before you know it they will be “out of the box” and getting ready to go home! The pix bring me back to when my girls were born (3lbs 9oz and a whopping 4lbs 2oz) I wish your family health love and happiness! The tree is a perfect idea and don’t even get me started on the pain med fiasco!
November 20, 2006 at 1:15 pm
woo hoo! Wish I could get up to see the little boogers.
What are ya’ll doing in March?
So glad that things are going well.
Hugs
November 20, 2006 at 2:58 pm
I am so thankful to hear you and Noel and the little guys are doing well…after you got some pain meds, that is!!!! Those nurses are lucky you didn’t try to strangle them with your IV tube or something. The pictures are too adorable for words, and I can’t WAIT to hear how Otis and Maslow greet their new brothers!!!!
November 20, 2006 at 3:14 pm
Congratulations to you and Noel on your beautiful boys. You should be so proud and I’m glad to hear they are so healthy, what a relief! Can’t wait until the day you all are home! God Bless!
November 20, 2006 at 3:17 pm
Oh so, so happy for you guys. The boys look great, so beautiful. And I’m just balling at the thought of the tree, what a wonderful memorial.
Oh you poor thing with the meds, how awful.
So, so happy things are going well, can’t wait to hear and see more.
November 20, 2006 at 4:03 pm
Congratulations on your new arrivals!! They are absolutely precious! And of course I love the name Austin because that’s where I live
Best of luck Kristi & Noel with your new extended family!
November 20, 2006 at 6:11 pm
I am so happy for you! The boys are very cute indeed!! I think they look awesome for being so little!! I’m glad you finally got some pain medication!! How terrible!! Thanks for keeping us posted and for the pictures!!
November 20, 2006 at 8:33 pm
Ohhhhh Kristi! They’re soooo cute! I want to smootch them!
Give Noel my love and have him give you my love, then you both give those boys my love.
We simply HAVE to get together in person once you’re home and settled so I can see those munchkins up close.
Sending you all of my love,
Kel
November 20, 2006 at 10:01 pm
Ah, baptism by baby boy, I remember it well.
From a PoliRican with kids who really are mutts – they are PoliRican/Scandinavian crosses.
Wishing you joy and good memories of Eli.
Li
November 20, 2006 at 11:25 pm
Congratulations!! The boys are lovely and I wish you the best!
November 21, 2006 at 12:23 am
Tried to post this AM but ….work interfere’s with my blogging! I can’t believe how different the boys look. I can only imaging that their personalities will follow the same path. The boys look wonderful, you’re right they don’t have the new born hamster look of most preemies.
I think the idea of planting a tree for Eli is wonderful.
Take care of each other…
November 21, 2006 at 12:36 am
They sure don’t look premature!!! Big healthy looking guys for sure. My husband says the Dutch in them is what is making them so strong-He, who is 100 % Dutch, says no genes are stronger and “you’re not mutch if you’re not Dutch” — if his family is any indication these guys will live to 100 and never have a cold.
November 21, 2006 at 3:57 am
Congratulations on your beautiful babies
November 21, 2006 at 1:41 pm
The babies are wonderful!! You and Noel do a bang up job of reproduction.
Glad to hear you are feeling better. But about the chills, I am not 100% sure they were not because of the c-section itself (of course the fever helped). When I had my c-section eons ago, I remember being just chilled to the bone for hours after the birth. Needless to say, all that shaking and teeth chattering is no fun when you have just had your belly vented – and I HAD pain meds, and NO fever! But with my other two boys(both VBACS), no chills. I have asked other moms who have had c-sections and almost all of them said they had the same thing. Maybe the forcible removal of our personal little heater(s) has something to do with it.
Enjoy the boys. They will be handfuls, no doubt, but in the end, they actually are worth it!
November 21, 2006 at 4:17 pm
Congratulations! Thanks so much for sharing your boys with us.
November 21, 2006 at 9:33 pm
Congratulations. The boys are beautiful. I’m sorry about the pain pump. I’m surprised no one noticed. I hope I never do something like that to a patient.
November 22, 2006 at 6:30 pm
They are gorgeous, I am so glad it is all going so well. I hope you are feeling a bit better now after your ordeal after the birth. Take care.
November 22, 2006 at 10:33 pm
They are beautiful! Congrats
November 25, 2006 at 1:31 pm
It is great to see the babies’ faces up close. Thanks for taking the time to post.
I’m very glad your wrap is cosy and comforting to you. That was my intent. The softest yarns in my stash went into that hug.